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Looking back on four years as a survivor

Getting cancer four years changed my life forever, in ways good and bad. I’m a much more patient and forgiving person (except with myself) than I was four years ago. Unfortunately, I have some serious side effects – from the treatment, not the cancer – that will be with me for life. But they’re manageable …

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The top 10 things I wish everyone knew about having cancer

The poet Maya Angelou wrote, “Do the best you can until you know better. Then when you know better, do better.”

It’s difficult to know how to react to someone who has cancer. What should you say? How should you act around them? I’m sure each cancer survivor could make their own rendering of this list. My goal with my version is not to criticize anyone’s past actions, but to help us all know better, so we can do better.

My patient identification number is blah-blah-blah. And that’s what I felt like at the start of my cancer treatment; just a number. Going through treatment, these were the Top 10 things I wish everyone knew about having cancer …

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